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Tim Ferriss · 2024-06-11 · 2h 14m

Rick Rubin and Mary Karr — The Tim Ferriss Show

A 10-year-anniversary super combo: Rick Rubin on creativity and a 135-pound transformation, and Mary Karr on trauma, sobriety, and writing.

Rick Rubin and Mary Karr — The Tim Ferriss Show
The guest

Rick Rubin and Mary Karr — Rick Rubin is a nine-time Grammy-winning music producer and author of The Creative Act. Mary Karr is a poet and author of the bestselling memoirs The Liars' Club, Cherry, and Lit, and a longtime Syracuse writing professor.

The gist

Tim Ferriss celebrates the show's 10th anniversary and 1 billion downloads with a paired 'super combo' episode. In the first half, recorded in a hot barrel sauna, Rick Rubin describes how a doctor-turned-songwriter and a high-protein low-calorie diet helped him lose 130-140 pounds, and shares his philosophy on inspiration, self-doubt, perfectionism, and making art that divides audiences. In the second half, Mary Karr recounts her harrowing East Texas childhood, her path from drug-dealer houses into college, getting sober in 1989, and how prayer and Ignatian spirituality reshaped her life. She also breaks down her teaching, revision, and memoir-writing process, and discusses the cost of dredging up traumatic memories.

Big reveals

  • Rick Rubin lost between 135 and 140 pounds at peak, after reaching 318 pounds despite being a strict organic vegan for over 20 years.
  • A nutritionist's high-protein low-calorie diet finally worked, dropping 130-135 pounds over 14 months after groundwork with Dr. Phil Maffetone turned on his metabolism.
  • Rubin argues the best art divides the audience: if half love it and half hate it, you've done well, while universally 'pretty good' work means little.
  • Mary Karr describes a chaotic childhood with a mother married seven times (twice to her father), both parents drinking hard, and a house where bullet holes ended up in the kitchen tile.
  • Karr reveals she tried to kill herself in grade school by taking aspirin, and entered therapy at 19 after a kind professor and his wife urged her to.
  • Karr, a lifelong atheist, got sober in 1989 and began praying on her knees at a sponsor's urging, told to do it for herself rather than for God.
  • After praying for money for weeks, Karr received an unsolicited $35,000 foundation grant she never applied for, an award decided before she started praying.
  • Karr's editor estimated she threw out roughly 1,200 finished pages while writing her memoir Lit, after being about seven years late on her contract.

Things worth remembering

  • Dr. Maffetone told Rubin to go outside naked in the sun for 20 minutes immediately on waking to reset a circadian rhythm he never knew he had.
  • Rubin's prescribed daily 20 minutes of low-heart-rate aerobic exercise was so hard that walking up a flight of stairs pushed him anaerobic.
  • Rubin's name first appeared to Tim on the cassette of Slayer's Reign in Blood, the first heavy metal album Tim ever bought.
  • Rubin frequently gifts the Stephen Mitchell translation of the Tao Te Ching and Jon Kabat-Zinn's meditation book Wherever You Go, There You Are.
  • Karr literally used the giant Riverside Shakespeare as a booster seat as a child and memorized speeches from Hamlet, Romeo and Juliet, Macbeth, and Richard III.
  • Karr's Syracuse MFA program receives about 1,200 applications for only 12 positions and selects solely on the writing.
  • On day one Karr stages a fake fight with colleague George Saunders to show students that memory is filtered by who they are, not a perfect recording.
  • Karr keeps a 'commonplace book' of beautiful overheard or read language and has 40 years of index cards with quotes from her lectures.
  • Asked for a billboard message, Karr chose: '90% of what's wrong with you could be cured with a hot bath.'
  • Tim took up hunting in 2012 after his first deer hunt with conservationist Steven Rinella while researching The 4-Hour Chef.

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The 4-Hour Body

Tim Ferriss

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The 4-Hour Chef

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The Creative Act: A Way of Being

Rick Rubin

“number one New York Times bestselling author of the creative act a way of being and host of the tetragrammaton podcast” — Tim Ferriss 00:06:13
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Tao Te Ching (Stephen Mitchell translation)

Lao Tzu, trans. Stephen Mitchell (inferred)

“the first one that comes to mind is the dowy Jane it's the step Mitchell translation of The Da Jing what's great about it is it's 81 short pieces” — Rick Rubin 00:22:52
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Wherever You Go, There You Are

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“another one that's really nice is book about meditation called wherever you go there you are which is by John kabit sin it's a great book” — Rick Rubin 00:23:55
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Reign in Blood

Slayer

“it was the first heavy metal album I ever bought which was rain and blood oh it's a good one and I just remember that's a really good one” — Tim Ferriss 00:19:42
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The Liars' Club

Mary Karr

“next up Mary Carr author of three award-winning best-selling Memoirs the Liars Club cherry and lit” — Tim Ferriss 00:31:52
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Cherry

Mary Karr

“author of three award-winning best-selling Memoirs the Liars Club cherry and lit and author of The art of memoir” — Tim Ferriss 00:31:52
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Lit

Mary Karr

“author of three award-winning best-selling Memoirs the Liars Club cherry and lit and author of The art of memoir which breaks down her process” — Tim Ferriss 00:31:52
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The Art of Memoir

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“author of The art of memoir which breaks down her process and Tropic of squalor her latest volume of poetry” — Tim Ferriss 00:31:52
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Tropic of Squalor

Mary Karr

“author of The art of memoir which breaks down her process and Tropic of squalor her latest volume of poetry” — Tim Ferriss 00:31:52
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