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Tim Ferriss · 2024-09-20 · 1h 00m

Q&A with Tim — Parenting Considerations, Intuition, New Hobbies, Dating, and More

Tim Ferriss answers fan questions on reinvention, parenting, dating, intuition, archery, and why doing things in real life beats AI overload.

Q&A with Tim — Parenting Considerations, Intuition, New Hobbies, Dating, and More
The guest

Tim Ferriss — Author, entrepreneur, angel investor, and host of The Tim Ferriss Show, here doing a solo Q&A marking the podcast's 10th anniversary.

The gist

In this solo, improvised Q&A Tim Ferriss fields pre-submitted and live questions from his audience following the podcast's 10th-anniversary celebrations. He ranges across personal and practical territory: how he thinks about optimization, risk, and barbell strategies in finance and life; his current uncertainty about what to do professionally beyond a new collaborative book he's drafting; and his evolving openness to parenting, including single parenthood. He shares candid takes on modern dating as a public figure, the qualities he seeks in a partner, intuition versus rationality, and his skepticism toward longevity hype in favor of 'experiential lifespan.' Throughout he stresses connecting with like-minded people in real life as a buffer against an oncoming flood of AI-driven information overload.

Big reveals

  • If he had to pick one topic for the podcast going forward, it would be reinvention — people who step back and reexamine their assumptions rather than staying in tried-and-true grooves.
  • He defines risk specifically as the potential of an irreversible negative outcome; the podcast itself wasn't risky to him because he could always stop, it was low-cost to start, and he enjoyed the process.
  • He admits he currently doesn't know what he wants to do professionally — some days it's genuinely stressful — and the new book is the only thing clearly in his sights.
  • He's writing the new book collaboratively rather than as a 'lone wolf,' which he says is psychologically healthier, and notes the Cockpunch NFT project was a precursor to this collaborative process.
  • He has roughly a thousand pages of notes on connecting with animals/nature and psychedelic exploration, and feels that may be the most important book he writes — but will wait until he no longer cares what people think because it'll sound extremely strange.
  • On parenting, he says single parenthood is now on the table for him — for a long time the answer was no, but he'd consider it, though ideally with a partner.
  • He warns that information delusion/AI-driven noise will '10x in the next 10 to 18 months' and that the best resilience is doing things in real life and seeking out your tribe.

Things worth remembering

  • Archery has brought him a ton of joy recently — he's been training hard, shooting both right- and left-handed, with a 'very good archery dog,' Molly, behind the line of fire.
  • He recently attended a Tango festival in Austin for the first time in about 20 years, bought new shoes, and wants to do a 3-4 week full-immersion trip to Argentina.
  • His top current snacks are Maui Nui venison sticks, mixed nuts (minus peanuts), and cans of lentils.
  • He went heavy into web3 and took large losses, but donated the Cockpunch NFT proceeds — around $2 million — to his foundation.
  • He cites Mike Tyson and Dean Martin puking before performing to normalize pre-performance nerves, and says rehearsal (like recording his TED talk hundreds of times) is his real mindfulness practice.
  • He warns that combining ayahuasca with SSRIs can cause potentially fatal serotonin syndrome, and that people on lithium should not mix it with psychedelics.
  • One of his favorite pieces of art was bought for about $60-80 at an antique warehouse in the middle of nowhere.
  • At the time of recording he'll be about 76-77 in 30 years; his family history on both sides has males typically dying around 85.
  • His father lost roughly 80 pounds (about 40 kg) in a year using the slow-carb diet plus the super slow resistance protocol (Ken Hutchins).
  • The best thing he spent an 'assload' on was a family trip around Europe with his parents, brother, and sister-in-law; he recommends reading Tim Urban's 'The Tail End.'

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